OUR SECRET SPOT DRESS CODE

WE ARE AN UPSCALE VENUE SO Dress to impress

DRESS CODE POLICY

A night at Our Secret Spot is a special event. Therefore, your attire should match the occasion.

We and other guests love seeing you dressed up and looking sexy.

Our standard is ‘Dress to Impress’. Most people can tell when someone has made an effort with their appearance; however, to avoid some common pitfalls of grey areas, here are the minimum expectations for dress standards

LADIES DRESS CODE

Dress to feel sexy and desirable whilst still being true to yourself. Think:
  • Dresses

  • Skirt and top combos

  • Slacks and Blouse

  • Suit

  • Camisole

  • Well-fitted denim

 
Footwear should highlight your outfit. Think:
  • Heels

  • Wedges

  • Flats

  • Boots

  • Dress sandals

If you feel like your heels aren’t going to be wearable all night, bring a pair of flats to store in the locker

 
Underneath can be just as important. Think:
  • Lingerie
  • Stocking & Suspenders
  • Bra and knickers
  • Robe
  • Au Naturale
 
No-No’s
  • T-shirts
  • Tracksuit (top and bottoms)
  • Hoodies
  • Caps
  • Shorts
  • Joggers/trainers/running shoes
  • Thongs/slides*
  • Slippers (yes, a couple turned up in slippers once, so now we have to say it)
  • Activewear

GENTS DRESS CODE

Dress to look dapper and handsome whilst still feeling comfortable. Think:
  • Collared Shirt
  • Trousers/slacks
  • Chinos
  • Well-fitted denim
 
Footwear:
  • Dress shoes
  • Boots
  • Dress sneakers
 
Underneath:
  • Yummy underwear. Maybe avoid the worn-out kind that every guy seems to have.
  • Men’s lingerie
  • Au Naturale
 
No-No’s
  • T-shirts
  • Singlets
  • Tracksuit (top and bottoms)
  • Hoodies
  • Caps
  • Shorts
  • Joggers/trainers/running shoes
  • Thongs/slides (okay for the end of the night when leaving)
  • Slippers (yes, a couple turned up in slippers once, so now we have to say it)
  • Activewear

 

 

 

 

 

 

GENERAL

Themed Events Occasionally, we have themed events. Some themed events may call for items that appear on the no-no list or contradict the minimum standards. If your outfit or costume is in line with the theme, let’s party, baby!

We put outfit and costume ideas in themed events’ descriptions, so check those out for some inspo.

If your outfit or costume is too risqué to wear out in public, coming in regular attire and being able to change upon entry is not a problem.

Second Outfit

Some guests like to bring a second outfit to change into after the night. Often, this clothing is more comfortable than what they arrived in. Changing into this outfit when it comes to home time is fine.

Last Thoughts

If you’re unsure about anything, please get in touch with us ahead of time. We will be more than happy to answer any questions you may have about your attire.

We also have some podcast episodes that discuss what to wear. (Link episode 12 & 82)

Stay sexy, and we’ll see you at the club.