OUR FRIENDS & FAMILY
Below are people we love that we have a special relationship with and we happily support each other.
Flirt
At Flirt, we’re not your usual adult store – think of us as your friendly guides to a more exciting, intimate experience. We’re Flirty, fun, female-managed, and redefining the adult retail experience. Celebrating two decades in the industry, and fifteen stores across NSW, we focus on enhancing Australians’ pleasure, because everybody deserves pleasure. Whether you’re a seasoned enthusiast or a curious newcomer, our friendly and knowledgeable team is here to guide you, offering an inclusive in-store and online at flirtadultstore.com.au experience designed for those in pursuit of excitement, pleasure, and fun.
Haus of Savvy
HAUS of SAVVY is a leading event production collective based in Sydney, Australia, known for creating inclusive, high-energy kink and fetish events that celebrate LGBTQIA+ communities and subcultures. Founded and led by Dick Savvy—also known as The Naked Barber—the HAUS is synonymous with bold, community-driven nightlife experiences.
HAUS of SAVVY produces two of Sydney’s most distinctive queer events at Our Secret Spot: MEAT RACK – Our exclusive men-only BDSM and fetish party. A no-holds-barred night where desires and fantasies come alive, MEAT RACK invites you to immerse yourself in a world of raw masculinity, leather, and connection, surrounded by like-minded men ready to explore their limits.
DYMK¿ – Sydney’s hottest, all-inclusive and perverse queer fetish party. This is the night when all genders, sexualities, and bodies are celebrated. Experience the unapologetically sexual and subversive universe of HAUS of SAVVY at DYMK¿—where the rules are few, and the freedom is limitless. Wondering what DYMK means? Go on—ask Dick Savvy.
Debauchery
Debauchery is a high-end event series that blends kink, swinging, and intimacy education in a luxurious, immersive setting. Created by seasoned curators Mistress Anastasia and Ash, The Kink Carpenter, each event is built around a unique theme, shaping the performances, curated play spaces, and the exclusive VIP intimacy class offered on the night.
For VIP guests, the evening begins with a guided workshop led by trusted sex-positive educators. Each class offers a new focus, teaching practical techniques, fresh perspectives, and a deeper understanding of intimacy, pleasure, and connection, giving guests so much more than just a night out.
Debauchery isn’t just another play party. It’s an experience designed to expand what’s possible—blending luxury, education, and eroticism into something truly unforgettable. Guests leave aroused, inspired, informed, and deeply connected to themselves and their desires.
BY THE BI
By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.
Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum.
So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.
Join us as we talk, explore, and discover more about ourselves and each other.
Plus our latest episodes with By the Bi:
RED HEAVEN
Red Heaven Events is Australia’s leading sexy-themed dance party, delivering unforgettable nights with international DJs, extravagant outfits, and exclusive venues. Since 2010, it has combined seductive style with funky house music to create a fun, provocative atmosphere. Known for its bold dress code and sophisticated vibe, Red Heaven invites guests to release their inhibitions and embrace a night of music, glamour, and freedom.
RHP EXCLUSIVELY
Exclusively RHP is a group of friends from all over Australia who organises and runs, specialised upmarket events involving cruises, drinks, exotic weekends away, local meet and greets and pool parties. Exclusively RHP is for select couples and single females who very much enjoy the social aspect of the lifestyle, but also love what follows.
SWINGING DOWNUNDER
G’Day everyone, thanks for stopping by! If you’re curious about the hotwifing, swinging or non-monogamous lifestyle we’d love you to tune in to our podcast. We’re C&D the Aussie podcast duo that loves to share our journey and wicked sense of humour with you all on our fortnightly podcast. We’ve been together for over a decade but we started out in a monogamous relationship and in the past 5 years we’ve been non-monogamous.
We’d love you to drop by and listen to our podcast, read our blogs, subscribe to our newsletter and engage with us. We love talking with other sex positive people all over the world and cannot wait to hear your story. You can find ‘Swinging Downunder’ on all podcast catchers, through social media or our website www.swingingdownunder.com
We’ve been podcasting now for over 5 years and some of our earlier episodes feature interviews with Our Secret Spot as well as visits and our journey. We cannot thank Jess and Lawrence enough for helping to create a place for us to start our journey all those years ago.
REDHOTPIE AUSTRALIA
Chat, meet and play with kinky couples & singles, attend the hottest parties. Download the latest App now with video chat, Live messaging and naughty chat rooms. Swing over to RedHotPie and find your next adventure now!
